Everyone had that one unforgettable best friend growing up in the ’90s—the person you stayed up late talking to on the phone with, shared secrets with, complained about strict parents with, and even matched outfits with. While technology and lifestyles have changed, the heart of friendship remains the same. Best friends are still the people who make life easier, whether they are helping us through heartbreak, sharing laughs, or simply being there when we need someone.

In the ’90s, friendship meant handwritten notes, phone calls to the house, mall trips, and silly traditions like making friendship bracelets. Even small disagreements felt dramatic, like when a friend forgot to take care of your digital pet. Making up usually involved a heartfelt note filled with “LYLAS” — “love you like a sis” — and plenty of apologies.

Today, friendships look a little different. Arguments may happen through social media, and apologies might come with a coffee, a selfie, or a funny message. Instead of spending every Friday night at the mall, many friends now prefer relaxing at home with a favorite show and good conversation.

The way best friends help each other has evolved too. In the ’90s, your friend might bring you a snack after a breakup or help you avoid someone you didn’t like at school. Today, they might plan a self-care day, search for your perfect match online, or defend you with a supportive post.

Even staying connected has changed. We went from ringing doorbells and calling home phones to communicating through emojis and instant messages. But the most important things remain unchanged: loyalty, laughter, shared memories, and having someone who always has your back.

Whether through friendship bracelets or matching tattoos, best friends continue to prove that some bonds never go out of style.